Discover how your erotic personality type can help you & your partner overcome sexual incompatibility.
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Overcome different desires in the bedroom and reclaim a mutually-fulfilling intimate life.
- Steve A.
That's why I made
Do you and your partner know what you really want? Do you struggle to understand each other's cues in bed? Do you sometimes find yourself distracted during sex or suffer from performance anxiety?
You've probably noticed that communication and trust issues are hindering your sexual connection. For many couples, a lack of understanding about the emotionality of sex is inhibiting the flow of their desire.
You may think desire is just a spectrum from “low” to “high.” But it’s so much more than that! Building a mutually-satisfying intimate life together requires understanding the psychology of your desire. That's why I created the Desire Archetypes™️ to help you design a sex life around both of your erotic needs.
Discover how my 4-part Desire by Design framework can empower you & your partner to heal your sexual connection and feel closer than ever.
Meet your coach
Hi! I'm Janel, a certified Somatica® Method sex & relationship coach who is obsessed with Relationship Design—the concept that you can design your intimate relationships around your desires instead of suppressing your needs and trying to fit into a one-size-fits-all model of how love and sex are "supposed to" be.
Sexual compatibility has been an issue in almost every relationship I've ever been in. Sometimes I want more sex or more of a certain kind of sex than my partner does, and sometimes I am the less desirous partner with hesitations or limitations around what my partner wants. As a result, I understand the frustration of both sides.
My goal is to help growth-oriented couples reconnect both physically and emotionally through a clear, step-by-step process and proven body-based, experiential practices. I have seen that, with the right tools, couples with seemingly very different erotic needs can create a win-win sex life. I'm honored to be your guide to designing the intimate connection that you and your partner deserve!
- Chelsea & Sophie T.
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