I'm a certified sex & relationship coach specializing in Relationship Design—the concept that you and whoever you're with can build a mutually-fulfilling intimate life around your authentic needs and desires, even if unconventional.

I'm a certified sex & relationship coach specializing in Relationship Design—the concept that you and whoever you're with can build a mutually-fulfilling intimate life around your authentic needs and desires, even if unconventional.

My mission is to empower couples struggling with different desires for their sex and relationships to design a thriving intimate life, whether that looks like overcoming different desires in the bedroom or designing a more open relationship (or both).

I became a coach after years of battling shame about my sexuality and desires.

After 14 years in Catholic school, I thought something was wrong with my interest in sex, my bisexuality, and my non-monogamous relationship orientation. On a quest to discover myself and overcome the shame I had grown up with, I lived on open-minded intentional communities, experimented with polyamory, hiked 5,000 miles across the US and took hundreds of hours of relationship coaching trainings. Now, my passion is helping others create more authentic intimate relationships. I'm honored to be your guide to Relationship Design!

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Are you struggling with different desires in the bedroom and want to feel intimately connected to your partner again, or are you exploring ethical non-monogamy and want personalized guidance to start your journey on the right foot? (Or both?) Learn more about personalized coaching with Janel online or in the San Francisco Bay Area, California.

Are you struggling with different desires in the bedroom and want to feel intimately connected to your partner again, or are you exploring ethical non-monogamy and want personalized guidance to start your journey on the right foot? (Or both?) Discover personalized coaching online or in the San Francisco Bay Area, CA.

"Janel's openness and non-judgmental mentality made us each feel incredibly validated and comfortable sharing our feelings. She helped us understand each other in such a deeper way. We feel closer and better equipped to navigate difficult times in our marriage. It's a complete night and day difference."

- Devin & Jo R.

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